Under New Managment

The sermon on Sunday got me thinking about Jesus talk about prayer in Matthew 6.

I would outline it as follows:

1. Prayer is not for managing people.
2. Prayer is not for managing God.
3. Prayer is for getting under new management.
4. Which shows up by becoming a forgiving person.

Jesus says that hypocrites pray so that others might see them. The heart of this is not public/private prayer, but the use of prayer to manage others. Prayer can be on the top of manipulative language. We are tempted to use it to get people to do what we want. We may want them to honor us or avoid us. It may be so that other people will line up and shut up. This is not about God, but about us.

Our desires play a role in prayer. Jesus would not have it otherwise. They can't play the biggest role, however. Otherwise we end up using prayer to manage other people.

Jesus says people who don't know God pray with many words so that God might hear them. The God who is absent - whether because he does not exist, or is just far away - is a source of fear. Prayer to such a God is more often a way of keeping him away rather than drawing near to him. We need such a God at times, but we don't really want him around. Instead of talking to him, we talk at him. So we might hope that our many words will somehow keep him distant while getting us what we want.

Asking is so important in prayer. But when we assume that God does not care or is not listening, we heap up "empty phrases" rather than talk with him. Asking becomes either conjuring or just a formality.

We must let go of managing other people or managing God in order to really pray. In prayer we adopt new management.

• Our Father in heaven: It's a family business. We are learning the trades of the heavens from our Father who works there.
• Hallowed be your name: The business of God has a name. We have a name under it. We long for the name of this work and the One who works to be honored, respected, and loved by all. When people hear the name of our business with God, we long for it to be a joy and relief to them.
• Your kingdom come. . . : Things on earth are not like they are in the heavens. The work and message we bring is how business is done in the heavens with our Father. The kingdom is not absent nor is it limited. There are just other kingdoms allowed to compete with God's work and Christ's business. We work to bring his "goods" to all people.
• Give us today our daily bread: Not wages. Our needs and wants fulfilled each day as we seek God and his work. We ask not because he is unwilling to give to us, but because we are often unwilling to receive from him.
• Forgive us. . . : The heart of our business on earth is our character. We come to offer forgiveness even as it has been offered to us. Forgiveness is central because all other goods from heaven come with it. Grudges destroy whatever good we hope to bring or to receive.
• Lead us not into temptation: The "competition" leads people into temptation and delivers them into evil in order to get what they want. To follow God and learn his work is to leave temptation behind and be delivered from the evil it will take us into.

I believe that basically the joining God in his business can be boiled down to one part of the prayer: "Hallowed be your name." On this all the other requests stand or fall. No other name can be sweeter than "Father." Where His name is not hallowed, there are other kingdoms which compete with his. His name is hallowed because he daily provides, forgives, and leads us.His name is hallowed because he teaches us to provide, forgive, and lead others as he would.

The final indication that we are in God's business is whether we are forgiving people. We forgive when we have the resources to forgive from our Father. We are under his management when we know his provision, his forgiveness, and his deliverance from temptation and evil. Without these we will not be forgiving, but hold grudges.

Perhaps the most obvious evidence of our lack of forgiveness is our anger and contempt for other people. A forgiving person is not an angry person. Nearly all of our reasons for anger do not have anything to do with forgiveness. They are self-justifying. Our anger indicates that we are not in God's business, but on our own, needing to "make it happen." This is why unforgiving, angry people are not praying people.